I can relate to what James Hamblin of The Atlantic is experiencing.
He is a year older than I am but he looks like in this video a twelve year old boy. He is Caucasian, which I can make sure he is way taller than I am.
It’s not because he makes conscious efforts to look like one but it’s more because of his natural tendency.
Some people just find it hard to ‘man up’, to be mature, to grow masculine, stable and OLD.